A very simple incident made me acknowledge the benefits of what we call "just trying ". A couple of days back I wanted desperately to smoke after a hard exam. I had cigarette but alas no match box in my room. It is one of the sick feelings- Its like you are with a sexy woman but you don't have a condom ( Of course for those who want "safe"). It doesn't hurt to carry one extra. Anyway, my other smoker friends were unavailable and I was getting even desperate. That is when I jokingly asked one of the very clean guys (read Saint) of my floor. I was very sure of the reply. However, to my pleasant surprise his reply made my cigarette carved body jump for joy.
This is when I learned that throwing stone in the dark helps sometime. It is in fact important to keep throwing stones in the night. Look at the benefits:It does not take much efforts; It certainly does not hurt if you do it: If it works out, you are in for a surprise. Win- win in all situations :)
If we extend the learning to serious things, we have serious aversion to doing things where we see very less probability of success. But think about it, If you are not loosing anything by trying - why not do it. I'm certainly not advising to put your foot in everything and loose everywhere. But certainly there are more situations where you don't need much efforts to try. I could give few example of girls too. You seriously never who responds who don't (You know what I mean)
So Guys, Keep trying. You'll never where it'll land ;)
This is when I learned that throwing stone in the dark helps sometime. It is in fact important to keep throwing stones in the night. Look at the benefits:It does not take much efforts; It certainly does not hurt if you do it: If it works out, you are in for a surprise. Win- win in all situations :)If we extend the learning to serious things, we have serious aversion to doing things where we see very less probability of success. But think about it, If you are not loosing anything by trying - why not do it. I'm certainly not advising to put your foot in everything and loose everywhere. But certainly there are more situations where you don't need much efforts to try. I could give few example of girls too. You seriously never who responds who don't (You know what I mean)
So Guys, Keep trying. You'll never where it'll land ;)
